We are leaving today for a few fun filled days on an Okanagan lake with our kids in tow and to meet up with two other families... who are of course lifestyle friends. Seeing as it is a family trip it will be somewhat subued around the cabin but there will be a pair of seedoo's there for everyone so you know clothes are going to fly once we are away from the kids! Hmmm how do you post pictures on this blog? I don't think you can so you will need to visit my website!
Everytime I write to this blog I keep coming back to the same thought - if we didn't enter the lifestyle what would we be doing? We wouldn't be having as much fun as we are I bet! We have some great non lifestyle friends but when it comes to letting loose and knowing that you can just be yourself without any judgement for us it needs to be a lifestyle event. Our site http://www.intothelifestyle.com/ has been a great meeting place to make these types of trips happen - go have a look for yourself!
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Monday, July 13, 2009
Watching UFC100 with Lifestylers
Some good friends of ours invited us over on Saturday to watch the fights; I have always been a closet enthusiast when it comes to MMA and jumped at the chance. My wife on the other hand was hesitant but came anyway which I thought was very cool. It turned out to be a great night! Decent fights (gotta love how classy GSP is but those shorts have got to go!)
The funny thing was that the couple who invited us over are lifestylers and there were some fighters there as well (they own an MMA gym) and the ladies sat on the deck as us guys yelled at the big screen. At a vanilla gathering this would be the norm but seeing as this was semi chocolate so to speak I thought it odd not to have my lady with me... So really does that mean lifestylers are closer as they want to be next to each other and not segragated like many vanilla parties tend to be?
I dunno but food for thought...
The funny thing was that the couple who invited us over are lifestylers and there were some fighters there as well (they own an MMA gym) and the ladies sat on the deck as us guys yelled at the big screen. At a vanilla gathering this would be the norm but seeing as this was semi chocolate so to speak I thought it odd not to have my lady with me... So really does that mean lifestylers are closer as they want to be next to each other and not segragated like many vanilla parties tend to be?
I dunno but food for thought...
Friday, June 26, 2009
Converting the Convertibles?
How do you broach the subject?
Do you randomly approach your friend or a nice looking person at the local coffee shop and say "Hey, my husband and I think you're hot; want to go for a drink sometime?" Yes that works once in awhile, moreso for the ladies trust me, but really it's not a mainstream thing so how do you meet people with the interest of friends with benefits?
We have recently found passion parties (my wife is a consultant) REALLY breaks the ice. It's amazing what a couple of drinks and a bunch of sex toys can do to break down some inhibitions and open up the lines of communications about muti partner play! Cyn, my wife has been doing phenomenal things with her new budding business. Sales are brisk, parties are a blast and we are meeting some very sexy people along the way...
Don't get me wrong there are so many pieces of the puzzle when it comes to multi partner play but if you can break down some barriers with something as simple as a party... Why Not!
Check out Cyn's website: http://www.cyn.yourpassionconsultant.com
Or for more info about the lifestyle visit: http://www.intothelifestyle.com
Do you randomly approach your friend or a nice looking person at the local coffee shop and say "Hey, my husband and I think you're hot; want to go for a drink sometime?" Yes that works once in awhile, moreso for the ladies trust me, but really it's not a mainstream thing so how do you meet people with the interest of friends with benefits?
We have recently found passion parties (my wife is a consultant) REALLY breaks the ice. It's amazing what a couple of drinks and a bunch of sex toys can do to break down some inhibitions and open up the lines of communications about muti partner play! Cyn, my wife has been doing phenomenal things with her new budding business. Sales are brisk, parties are a blast and we are meeting some very sexy people along the way...
Don't get me wrong there are so many pieces of the puzzle when it comes to multi partner play but if you can break down some barriers with something as simple as a party... Why Not!
Check out Cyn's website: http://www.cyn.yourpassionconsultant.com
Or for more info about the lifestyle visit: http://www.intothelifestyle.com
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Who is a Swinger?
Really who is a swinger? Most if not all of us have this vision of a seedy, smoky 1970's porno where people show up, throw their keys in a bowl and pick keys out to see who goes with who; Well that is definatly the past let me tell you!
My wife and I are into the lifestyle; notice I didn't say we are swingers because to be quite honest we don't feel we are, nor do most younger adults that like to let loose and are open to some sexy fun that may or may not include other like minded consenting people. Are "swingers" a thing of the past? Maybe, but then again there are so many levels of lifestyle play that one term or generalization just couldn't cover it.
We have been very fortunate to have met some very sincere and genuine people in the last year and a half that we have opened up to the idea of being into the lifestyle. One website in particular has taken us on so many adventures and is quickly turning into our hub as far as meeting sexy people wanting a night out with a sexy twist. http://www.intothelifestyle.com/ has really opened up a whole new world to us with it's live video chat, sexy galleries, forums and a whole new level of flirting online.
I guess where I am going with this is to help in dispelling some myths, open up some eyes and hopefully give a small insight as to what goes on behind closed doors... if you want to really experience it have a look at http://www.intothelifestyle.com/
My wife and I are into the lifestyle; notice I didn't say we are swingers because to be quite honest we don't feel we are, nor do most younger adults that like to let loose and are open to some sexy fun that may or may not include other like minded consenting people. Are "swingers" a thing of the past? Maybe, but then again there are so many levels of lifestyle play that one term or generalization just couldn't cover it.
We have been very fortunate to have met some very sincere and genuine people in the last year and a half that we have opened up to the idea of being into the lifestyle. One website in particular has taken us on so many adventures and is quickly turning into our hub as far as meeting sexy people wanting a night out with a sexy twist. http://www.intothelifestyle.com/ has really opened up a whole new world to us with it's live video chat, sexy galleries, forums and a whole new level of flirting online.
I guess where I am going with this is to help in dispelling some myths, open up some eyes and hopefully give a small insight as to what goes on behind closed doors... if you want to really experience it have a look at http://www.intothelifestyle.com/
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